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Diamonds, if you ever think everyone is "doing it", according to a study I just read approximately 85% of Americans approve of pre-marital sex; 50% of young adult couples have sex within the first month of dating; another 25% wait for one to three months. However, there is also the almost forgotten group of people who wait until they are married to have sex.

Although the later group is smaller in numbers, the last group still exists and have discovered and benefited from waiting until they were married. How so? Well, the longer a couple waited to become sexually involved the better their sexual quality, relationship communication, relationship satisfaction, and perceived relationship stability was in marriage. The study also concluded that early sexual involvement diverted couples from putting the necessary energy and focus into communicating verbally, which is essential to healthy relationships.

Thought this information was very insightful, enlightening as well as encouraging to who are abstaining until you walk down the aisle :).

Your group may be small but your sacrifice is not! It pays to wait!

smile emoticonYour group may be small but your sacrifice is not! It pays to wait!

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